Thursday, September 16, 2010

LOVE and HATE

They used to say...when two people are in love, they love to make promises,they love to make each other to swear. I found it meaningless, since the first relationship that's now broken....
"till the ocean dry....till the sky falls....till the hair turns grey...till we both lying on the rocking chair and look at each other with wrinkled smile...bla bla bla....." sounds funny but yet...the promises were so sincere and i actually believe in it....naive right...LOL...
And so, i learnt not to make empty promises...and yea...not to trust people easily with all the promises now.....

Today i came across this meaningful article....it says that love is not possessive. "If you like the moon, you can't just take it down and put in in your basin so that the moonlight only shines for you.." In other words, we shouldn't be selfish in love, there's million methods of possessing the one you love, some will just let him/her to become a permanent memory in their life...wishing him/her happiness...hoping that he/she will be with the one he/she loves most...but not stopping him/her from it..hmm..i think it is really magnanimous and indeed the greatest part of love??...love is not about keeping someone for your pride....but if both of them love each others a lot.....that will be a whole different story larr.....

People used to say that love only happens at the right place and the right time. Im definitely agreee with this......but sadly, it might not be the right person everytime....

Anyway, i believe that true love will never become hate..i wonder why the one that wanted to let go always the one that being blamed.....but at least the one that says it out has the courage...once he/she found out that you are not the right person....you should be thankful as he/she didn't drag it any longer...so why hate him/her???

Well, we are helpless as he/she chose to hate us right...but at least we gain soomething in each and every relationship......so i will never hate anyone that i loved/love... :)

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