Stop Arguing Your Friendship to Death

What you think about rivalry between friends?? For me, it's like a friendship toxic waste. Well, people argue for reason, but destructive arguing between friends will eventually destroy a friendships. They used to say that the opposite of arguing isn't agreement in all things, it is knowing how to disagree and still maintain mutual respect and liking. I strongly agree with this.

Hmm, there are actually few reasons that caused this thing to happen-- Jealousy, Misunderstand, Cannot agree with each others on something, or maybe there is another person that trying to spoil the friendship, and so forth.

I just couldn't understand when i see friends talking bad about each others when they themselves are doing the same thing. Friends backstab, misunderstand, gossip and even argue with each others over some small things are seriously damn funny....Hmm, maybe friendship is really so fragile for them???... i just couldn't understand why....

Well, I am just feeling a bit disappointed all in a sudden, that's why I am writing this....friends that used to be so close become so unfamiliar....

Today, I saw many high school friends posting stupid shout out in Facebook, knowing that they are having some big argument over a stupid thing. Couldn't do much as i am not that close with them, but i feel damn one kind...I don't understand why they can't just settle things face to face but posted it in Facebook and letting the whole world knows about the argument???? Well, it's kinda stupid....letting more people to know will just makes the situation gets even worse.

Tells it out face to face if you really appreciate your friendship with them....how if it is just a small thing that caused misunderstand.....don't you think that it's not worth at all??? Tells it out and let him or her knows what you think....don't just keep quiet and pretend to be okay when it's not....